I think it’s time to finish the “love series“….at least for now. I am going to write a few more words on the next stage of the relationship and next time will talk about something else. Suggestions are always appreciated. We can blog about everything, especially the things from life where everybody has a lot to say. So, we talked how beautiful is everything when we first fall in love, all the thrills and dizziness and the feelings after that. However what happens in a couple of years after being with that person?
When exactly this ONE is no longer that interesting, that charming, that glowing? How can this great love turn into daily fights, ugly words and contempt? How can the one become the most hated person in the world? And when this time comes what if the other person still loves us? Do we have the right to hurt our closest people? In a relationship always one of the couple loves and gives more. It is sad that very often the other takes that for granted. Usually we appreciate what we miss the most, and we aim to have it, but we destroy what is ours, aiming to have what we miss the most. People are strange creatures – they don’t enjoy what they have, but always struggle to have something else, something more interesting and not ours.
Unfortunately noone can instruct his own heart and noone can force us to love somebody even if that is the nicest person in the world. Because we do not love the one who is perfect, our love creates its own perfection. When the heart says no, we have to obey and move on. Every end is a beginning and everybody has the right to be thrilled and overwhelmed again and again. We should not give up our happiness just for the sake of children or for the people’s opinion or because we are afraid to hurt somebody. In love the most amazing thing is the beginning and that is why we should not wonder why we want to start all over. And maybe with the next one the love will last forever or until the end of time…
“It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else, but it’s more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.”